A Lesson In Humility, in the WORDs of this Mom

There's a definite lack of humility in the world today, and I'm seeing arrogance and pride rearing their heads in the last places I'd expect to see them.  Feel free to comment and discuss your opinions on this.  However, as the school year is getting closer and more kids will be taught and coached by adults OTHER than their parents, I just hope I'm not the only one having this discussion with my kids before they get settled into their "circle of friends" and activities this year.


First, I would like to define humility, as per Merriam Webster Online:


Humility-  : the quality or state of being humble


OK, quality of being "humble"... let's define humble...

Humble (adjective) 
1: not proud or haughty : not arrogant or assertive
2:  reflecting, expressing, or offered in a spirit of deference or submission <a humble apology>




So here it is, the first Melanie-ism of the blog, a Lesson in Humility when choosing friends, acquaintances, activities, and even as adults this can be applied to careers and hobbies:


IF SOMEONE HAS TO REMIND YOU OF HOW (blank) THEY ARE, THEY AREN'T.  (You fill in the blank as appropriate for any given situation: great/ wonderful/ respected/ honored/ talented/ popular/ smart/ etc.)  

Save yourself the hassle, cut ties and MOVE ON.  Who people really are will show itself in time, so don't take any one's word for anything.  Just because the "cool" kid is doing something doesn't mean it's a good idea.  Just because someone thinks too highly of themselves doesn't mean they are worthy of YOU thinking highly of them, too.  


In closing, I'd like to share a thought from one of my favorite people to turn to for advice.  About 9 years ago, he gave me a very sound piece of advice that says it all:  "He was a likable fella... then again, so was Ted Bundy."